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My Marriage Proposal

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If you want to be my lover you gotta blah blah blah. Major Lol. You know the song from the Spicy Girls. This topic is dear to my heart because I know it will work and be 100% effective. I believe that marriage should be a mutual understanding between two people that love each other deeply. I have a full marriage proposal that is based on financial stability and mutual rules between the husband and wife. Which is also the only legitimate form of marriage = 1 man and 1 woman. Financial Stability : 1.  My money is my money and it goes into my OWN bank account 2.  No joint accounts EVER 3.  Your money is your money and it goes into your own bank account      4.  We split the MAIN BILLS in half 5.  Main Bills - a. Rent/Mortgage B.  Electricity C.  Groceries D.  Water Bill E.  Cable/Internet 6.  Every other expense is your responsibility as a grown ass person 7.  You pay your own insurance ...

Veterans

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What is patriotism without caring for those that helped give us that right to be patriotic? It just doesn’t complete the sentiment of having patriotism. If you love your country, then how can you turn your back on those who gave up their very lives to protect your country. These men and women are not just anybody: they are veterans who deserve our respect and true appreciation. Sure, some might have been obligated by their own circumstances to join the military as a means out of their needs or life-issues; nonetheless, they made the choice to go willingly or grudgingly. As a naturalized citizen, I am more thankful to this nation than any one naturally born here in America, for I know and value everything they have given to me. I will always treasure the several months spent volunteering for the local veterans hospital I attended to as a college student. I saw first hand the physical implications that come along being a veteran and the emotional distress it leaves behind. I feel go...

Flashback Friday!!!

Flashback Friday Baby!!!! Well, let me start by saying that I freaking love, love, love and oh yeah LOVE Fridays!!!!! Why??? Because it is always the diggie it diggie BOMB. Major Lol. Seriously though on a serious note the Fridays I have lived here on planet earth have been incredible and amazing. One of the most memorable ones has been my sweet fifteen. Also, not gonna lie- this is on a side note of personal boy trouble- all the crazy shenanigans have happened on a Friday as well, what do you know.          So back to the first mention of my sweet fifteen birthday party. It was by surprise and it was on a Friday. I didn’t skip school that day as most people would have done, especially considering it was a Friday. My then middle school friends – I was still in middle school when I turned 15 unfortunately- had planned a lovely lunch party in the conference room. They ordered pizza and had a nice big cake for me and all the people there, I was so overwhelme...

Recap 2018

Congratulations Bloggers we made it to 2019!!!! What an amazing feeling right? Yes, of course! Anyways, I made this super cool video on the summary outlook of my 2018, so go ahead and view yourself on  YouTube . Now, for those who would like a bit more exclusive detail and are willing to read it, then you have arrived at the right place. I will provide for you certain things I did not mention in the video as well as a small synopses of the video too.  I have always been open and honest with my audience and I will continue to do so for as long as I shall live. I basically have talked about all the parts of my life from childhood to my piece of kaka "love" life, so you cannot accuse me of misleading anyone with my honest and heartfelt blogs.  Last year I clearly made way too many poor judgement decisions that led me to nothing but despair and regret. I allowed people to take full advantage of me and that is one thing no-one should ever compromise. You are alw...

FL Youth Ranch !!!

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Hey, my loyal bloggers… it has been a while since I have had the privilege of blogging. Today I come to you with new updates and I will share with you all a new organization I have discovered. So, let’s begin… last week I was honored to have been invited to the annual thanksgiving banquet for the Florida Sheriffs Youth Ranch organization in Safety Harbor. I have never been in this part of the Tampa Bay area before, so the notion of just getting to visit the area was exciting in it of itself- add free food and man it’s a party! Major Lol. I was invited by no other than a top employee of the association, so I also got an Uber tour when we arrived at the camp. They have a full outdoors basketball court and playground areas for the kids/youth who reside there with the caregivers. There are several homes in this camp, each home hosts up to 10 kids, with a set of caregivers (fulfilling the role of mother and father). They have other buildings assigned for the chapel and dinning area....

Domestic Violence

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     Make-up helps cover some bruises but believe me nothing covers up the pain of being the victim of verbal and physical abuse. I had a great childhood and most people would disagree with me because of my accident at age three; however, I was the one living my childhood and I enjoyed every part of it. Yes, there was physical pain from surgeries and treatments, but apart from that I was loved and taken good care of as a child. I had lots of barbies and girl toys and I had lots of play-time.     I was a very innocent child back in the day and with time I matured and my innocence washed away layers by layers. I remember crying with my mom as she sobbed from her wounds that my FATHER biological father gave her. I didn't understand the concept of domestic violence at that time and moment, but I did my best to comfort her and try to protect her as well. I came to realize the horror of what my father did to my mom around the age of 9-ish definitely when I was 11 ...

Family Planning

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      I love to think about the future, because it makes me happy. I think about it all, how I will be in 5 years from now, and I want to achieve as much of it as possible. I have thought about how many kids I want to have since I was in middle school. I want to be a mother to four beautiful children. I don't know how many I can pop out of my body (not literally but you know what I mean) but I also want to adopt. I even hope to be able to be a foster parent.        I have a rational reason to why I want four kids. A single child is bound to be a spoiled brat; 2 kids if they're the opposite sex like a sister and a brother will not have that sister or brother to really bond with about girls or boys things; 3 kids will mean either the brother or sister will not have another brother or sister to have that same sex bond; so 4 hopefully 2 girls and 2 boys will leave each siblings with a same sex partner that they can relate to on all levels.   ...