Miami Adventures

It’s getting hot in here so …. Heeeey now I am talking about Miami Hot weather now Lol.

I am so humbled and honored to have been invited by Tayo Ishola to the 2019 Eido Swimwear Wonder Woman Initiative in Miami, Florida just this past weekend. I was one of four amazing woman that were selected as a honorees. I received a nice trophy and small plaque. All the images and videos can be found on my Instagram if you just type #amilikey in the search bar or go directly to my page @amilikey25

Let me begin with the inside scoops of how it all worked out, because really it is a truly nice story. My cousin from Colombia came to visit me in February and she was staying ironically with another cousin down in Hallandale beach, so my best friend really gravitated towards her and he made the effort to drive down there to spend the last Friday morning with her at the beach.

I have had an Instagram account publicly for a while now – not exactly sure how long but it has been active and I strive to utilize it to inspire and motivate people as much as I can through my day to day shenanigans and daily livings – so somehow Tayo had been following my page and saw that I was at Hallandale beach with my cousin and friends. She assumed I lived there and she invited me to be a part of the event not realizing I was a Tampa resident. My point is that had I not made that trip to visit my cousin for only a few hours I would have missed out on this wonderful opportunity to share my story with a bigger live audience in Miami.

I was able to take a air-flight for the 1^st time in 18 years and yes it really had been that long, so the experience felt like riding a bike for the first time. I felt in awe and peace just gazing from 19,000 feet above the ground; viewing the buildings and grasslands (or whatever it really was Lol) was just spectacular to me. I want to travel again so much more and I feel bad for the people that let their nerves get the best of them, because baby air-flights are an amazing experience to view the world from up there and see just a glimpse of God’s beauty is truly remarkable.

So, to the funny moments I experienced:

v  I didn’t know how to exit the Miami airport like no lie I totally went the wrong way until I looked at the map provided

v  When I ordered my 1^st Uber I thought I was on the 1^st floor and I assumed since I saw other Uber drivers I was in the right place – thankfully the Uber was kind enough to call me and tell me I had to go down one floor to the departal section where all the taxis were lined up; it was scary because he said hurry the cops usually don’t let me stay here much longer so I was like oh my goodness hope I can make it I don’t want to order another Uber and get charged the cancellation fees

v  I was so hot (temperature wise) after the event I left my sports bra on only with my favorite leggings and got on the Uber and it was this poor young white male maybe 19 or 20 and he felt so uncomfortable with me in a sports bra I guess and he didn’t even turn his head for like not one second Lol I was laughing internally … he looked so innocent and like he didn’t want to look because he was being respectful but I mean it’s Miami and it’s just a sports bra nothing exclusive or whatever but anyways I thought that was amusing

v  I saw Don Francisco this famous Latin TV show announcer and broadcaster for like a few seconds right across the lane at the airport but you know I wasn’t gonna ask for a selfie or autograph – plus side-note he ended up having some bad drama about his show and what not so I was just like ehhh not worth the holla Lol

Well those were some of the aha moments I wanted to share with my favorite audience – my bloggers and readers. I definitely want to travel so so much more now and I hope my next trip takes me farther and it last a lot longer. I hope you enjoyed this blog post.

Make sure to checkout all the rest of the blogs because well I have shared a lot about so many things in life I am sure you can relate to some of the blogs if not all Lol.

Remember to always look at bad circumstances through a different lens and make the best of what you have in a good way; never to harm anyone in your strive for success and always remembering that kindness takes away nothing from you but gives the recipient so much and it makes a difference.

Love the one and only,

Xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo

Ana J    

My Marriage Proposal

If you want to be my lover you gotta blah blah blah. Major Lol. You know the song from the Spicy Girls. This topic is dear to my heart because I know it will work and be 100% effective. I believe that marriage should be a mutual understanding between two people that love each other deeply. I have a full marriage proposal that is based on financial stability and mutual rules between the husband and wife. Which is also the only legitimate form of marriage = 1 man and 1 woman.

Financial Stability:

1. My money is my money and it goes into my OWN bank account

2. No joint accounts EVER

3. Your money is your money and it goes into your own bank account     

4. We split the MAIN BILLS in half

5. Main Bills- a. Rent/Mortgage

B. Electricity

C. Groceries

D. Water Bill

E. Cable/Internet

6. Every other expense is your responsibility as a grown ass person

7. You pay your own insurance on car and every expense to maintain the car

8. You pay your own medical insurance and any necessary procedures like tonsils

9. Neither of us is obligated to give each other money like an “allowance” we ain’t each others     parents

10. When we decide to go out if it was a mutual idea then we split the check

11. If I want to invite my husband out then I pay for all expenses

12. If my husband decides to invite me out he pays all expenses

13. As long as we both contribute to the main bills, neither one of us can question what the other does with his or her money, so if you have no cash left after paying your fair share of half the bills then too bad that’s your problem

14. DO NOT EVER ASK EACH OTHER FOR MONEY

15. Unless you are willing to pay 10% interest on the money borrowed don’t ask then

MAIN RULES 

1. We are both grown adults therefore DO NOT DARE TELL ME WHERE I CAN AND CANNOT GO because I am not your child and I DO NOT NEED YOUR PERMISSION

2. I will ALWAYS inform you where I am going and with who I am hanging out

3. When you want to take a mini vacation or a get away trip with your homeboys or family you have 3 days prior to leaving to inform me so everything that needs to be taken care is done

4. If you are not home by 9:00 PM then you are responsible for telling me where you are and if you are coming home that night via a text or phone call

5. CHEATING IS ABSOLUTELY NOT TOLERATED IN ANY FORM OR SHAPE

6. The instance that you put your penis in someone else body we are OVER no excuses

7. IF I can remain loyal and faithful to you I expect the exact same level of commitment and respect for vowing to marry me

8. You brake the law I will NOT COVER UP for you

9. I am not your mom therefore you know how to act and what is an acceptable behavior

10. I WILL ONLY COOK for you but EVERYTHING ELSE IS YOUR RESPONSIBILITY

11. You can DO your own laundry and pick up your shoes

12. The HOME CLEANING will be split too

a. bathrooms b. kitchen c. living room/dinning room

  d. bedrooms e. hallways and front/back outdoors area

13. CLEANING will be completed on Saturday Mornings whatever areas are left to be cleaned

14. NO PETS EVER IN MY HOME

15. When we do argue and fight verbally without insulting each other DON’T worry you are not my dog so you will NEVER have to sleep on the COUCH

16. SEX can NEVER be used as revenge or getting back at you for anything

17. When we have kids, they will receive an allowance from age 10 to 17; first it will be weekly then daily after they’re 15 and it increases according to age

18. When they misbehave they will loose privileges and chores will be doubled

19. After they’re 18 they are responsible for all their expenses

20. If they want or need money I will be willing to lend them at a 10% interest

21. If they want a car, college, luxuries then get a legal job and pay up.

I believe I have addressed the main points of a marriage. We will continue to be independent individuals who choose to love and live with each other WITHOUT needing each other to survive. Marriage will never be easy and there has to be a lot of compromise to make it work, but if you instill these guidelines above it will make marriage so much better. Money problems should be very minimal to almost non-existent. Neither the husband or wife will be overwhelmed because all the responsibilities will be shared equally. No secrets between each other unless it involves a romantic surprise like a weekend getaway trip by surprise. Remembering always that we married each other to support our dreams and to share all of life the good times and bad times. Making time and effort to keep the marriage alive through dates and exciting adventures together like climbing a cool mountain or participating in a third world country outreach. What God United let No Man/Woman separate!!!!

Thanks for reading have a great day and remember you are important & have something to contribute in this lifetime.

Xoxoxoxoxoxoxo,

Ana :)

  

Veterans

What is patriotism without caring for those that helped give us that right to be patriotic? It just doesn’t complete the sentiment of having patriotism. If you love your country, then how can you turn your back on those who gave up their very lives to protect your country. These men and women are not just anybody: they are veterans who deserve our respect and true appreciation. Sure, some might have been obligated by their own circumstances to join the military as a means out of their needs or life-issues; nonetheless, they made the choice to go willingly or grudgingly.

As a naturalized citizen, I am more thankful to this nation than any one naturally born here in America, for I know and value everything they have given to me. I will always treasure the several months spent volunteering for the local veterans hospital I attended to as a college student. I saw first hand the physical implications that come along being a veteran and the emotional distress it leaves behind. I feel good about giving back in just a small way to them through my volunteer work. Veterans are an interesting group of people who can absolutely exemplify the meaning of comradeship.

My post for completing my volunteer work was comprised of mainly veterans from the 70s maybe 80s I suppose since they’re in their mid 50s and 60s. They allowed me see the side effects of what it means to become a veteran of various types. Whether they served the minimum of four years and retired or they spent over 20 years then retired; I feel they all are deserving of the same validation of those who also have been at war. Yes, their experiences are different and no one can argue that point, but they all served our country and that is worthy of our honor unto them all.

When the time is right, as in I am in an affluent position, I will give back to our veterans in more ways than just a check to a foundation, but create a place they can call their own base camp. A place where they can come in and receive services for no charge at all and experience things maybe they’ve never had the opportunity to take part in because of their physical limitations or emotional distress. To all the wonderful veterans out there I, Ana Gonzalez, want to personally say, Thank you!!! I acknowledge your sacrifice and appreciate all that you have done to be a part of defending this nation. Nothing anyone says or does on your behalf will ever compensate your suffering and loss (to the fallen soldiers & their families), but know that this petite naturalized citizen cares for you and you are just one more spark to igniting my desire to succeed.

I will never be president of the United States of America, because I obviously don’t meet the requirements and my ambitions are far too great to be subject to any particular limitations like the secret service. Yes, I know I am so humble. Major Lol. Now, for real I will make a difference in peoples lives no matter what struggles come my way. I am the president of my blog and social media so that’s good enough for me. Thanks for reading this blog post and remember to salute and thank a veteran when you do meet one.

Xoxoxoxoxoxoxo,

Ana :)

              

Flashback Friday!!!

Flashback Friday Baby!!!!

Well, let me start by saying that I freaking love, love, love and oh yeah LOVE Fridays!!!!! Why??? Because it is always the diggie it diggie BOMB. Major Lol. Seriously though on a serious note the Fridays I have lived here on planet earth have been incredible and amazing. One of the most memorable ones has been my sweet fifteen. Also, not gonna lie- this is on a side note of personal boy trouble- all the crazy shenanigans have happened on a Friday as well, what do you know. 

        So back to the first mention of my sweet fifteen birthday party. It was by surprise and it was on a Friday. I didn’t skip school that day as most people would have done, especially considering it was a Friday. My then middle school friends – I was still in middle school when I turned 15 unfortunately- had planned a lovely lunch party in the conference room. They ordered pizza and had a nice big cake for me and all the people there, I was so overwhelmed with joy and excitement. One of my other friends, who know is a world-wide traveler and photographer bought me the big birthday balloon I had been begging for because I wanted to feel special and important. Now, to be honest I can say the real reason behind it was founded on the desire to be like the Caucasian affluent teens; they always paraded their wealth via presents and brand-name clothing, so I wanted just for that day to feel like they felt all the time being showered with gifts and flaunting it for everyone to see. Afterwards, my beloved mami made my favorite lasagna and strawberry cake and invited at that time my best friends. My bestie was like 7 years younger than me, but we bonded like sisters and to this day I sincerely miss her so much, she stayed over the whole weekend.

     Apart from that epic Friday, I have also plenty of more memorable moments that just happened to occur on you know it, now say it with me  F R I D A Y !!!!!!!! Major Lol. On the top of my big head, I can’t recollect any particular moments, because there are so many that stand out to me personally. However, just to wrap up this juice personal blog post, let me introduce you to a new character in my life. His name is profe C., well technically that’s what I nicknamed him because he is so freaking smart and plays sports. I wanted to briefly introduce him, because he deserves a little recognition for being so nice to me and always having the time to listen to my shenanigans and my “guy” troubles – not really but it sounds dramatic – while I talk non-stop. Profe C. even gets me, like when I recapitulate a story he will then be on my side and say that what I had to say makes perfect sense. Maybe he is just allured by the fact that we live in separate countries and different continents, that he keeps in touch with me in order to have a foreign friend. Nahhhhh, I am just kidding hehehhehe, we are actually from the same nationality and he doesn’t have a preference to America or is so overwhelmed by Americans, and he actually would prefer to travel to Europe instead.

     Anyways I already probably said a little too much, but hey that is who I am, so too bad so sad for you. Smile face with my tongue out emoji. Lol. OhHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH and I almost forgot TODAY can be one of those true epic Fridays as my Golden State Warriors take down the King for good in a total Sweep of 4-0. You know it can happen if KD gets in there like a mad baller and nails another epic last second 3-pointer. Either way I guess it already will be epic, because I will enjoy the NBA Finals game and have a blast yelling and screaming at the TV alongside my beautiful family. Go DubNation !!!!!!!!!!  

Xoxoxoxoxoxo,

Ana J 

     

Recap 2018

Congratulations Bloggers we made it to 2019!!!! What an amazing feeling right? Yes, of course! Anyways, I made this super cool video on the summary outlook of my 2018, so go ahead and view yourself on YouTube.

Now, for those who would like a bit more exclusive detail and are willing to read it, then you have arrived at the right place. I will provide for you certain things I did not mention in the video as well as a small synopses of the video too. 

I have always been open and honest with my audience and I will continue to do so for as long as I shall live. I basically have talked about all the parts of my life from childhood to my piece of kaka "love" life, so you cannot accuse me of misleading anyone with my honest and heartfelt blogs. 

Last year I clearly made way too many poor judgement decisions that led me to nothing but despair and regret. I allowed people to take full advantage of me and that is one thing no-one should ever compromise. You are always deserving of self-respect and the respect from others. The concept of having to earn someone respect is just wrong, because if nobody is willing to give respect than we are just all rude people and the cycle never ends. The only thing you have to earn from people is their trust in who you are as person. 

I ruined my credit score by maxing out every credit card I took out while I still had a good score. Obviously, I knew better than that, but finding myself in a state of somewhat freedom I abused it and I wanted to have fun. I made Uber and Lyft a lot more rich that's for sure. Major Lol. I purposely pawned a few things I never intended to get back so that they would give me the maximum amount of money. These actions were all impulsed by hanging out with the wrong crowd and seeking to live the "luxurious" life I never had (basically eating out and buying things I never had like a fit-bit,etc.).   

I also must say my entire year wasn't completely reckless. I did enroll in school for the 4th time and completed the program from start to finish through all the mess I was going through I did it. I was involved in many volunteering events for school and Shriners Hospital for Children, so I am very grateful and happy about all those hours I spent giving of myself for a greater cause. 

And yes although some people are tired of hearing me say it, but I also experienced heartbreak at the hands of RJ3 (that's his made up code name). I came to realize I have unconditional love for him and I put up with way too much of his bs and wrong treatment towards me. I can honestly say I do love him dearly but that is NOT the equivalent of being IN love with him. I also know deep deep deep down he never intentionally meant to hurt me, but it would be nice to receive a genuine apology for all of 2018 from him. I miss him everyday and no matter what I do and who I end up marrying (if I ever do) he literally took a piece of my heart for all eternity. I would say it's probably like an eighth (1/8) of my heart and the good memories will never fade in my mind.

I also worked and paid taxes for 4 months out of the year. But not because I didn't want to work before June or after October; the circumstances just presented themselves in that manner. So, I will zip it for now and give you guys a breather. I know you smiled and laughed and that was worth my time and energy into this new blog post. 

Remember you are important to me and someone else even if it's just your mommy Jk Jk Jk but really don't feel useless or worthless ever, because you are not. You have purpose and your life matters in the great circle of life (yes the Lion King movie is coming out this year yeahy Lol). 

Thank you for reading, now go and comment, like, or share!!!

Xoxoxooxoxoxo,

Ana :) 

FL Youth Ranch !!!

Hey, my loyal bloggers… it has been a while since I have had the privilege of blogging. Today I come to you with new updates and I will share with you all a new organization I have discovered.

So, let’s begin… last week I was honored to have been invited to the annual thanksgiving banquet for the Florida Sheriffs Youth Ranch organization in Safety Harbor. I have never been in this part of the Tampa Bay area before, so the notion of just getting to visit the area was exciting in it of itself- add free food and man it’s a party! Major Lol. I was invited by no other than a top employee of the association, so I also got an Uber tour when we arrived at the camp.

They have a full outdoors basketball court and playground areas for the kids/youth who reside there with the caregivers. There are several homes in this camp, each home hosts up to 10 kids, with a set of caregivers (fulfilling the role of mother and father). They have other buildings assigned for the chapel and dinning area. It truly is a nice campus overall.

As soon as we entered the dinning hall, I was amazed on how nice the décor looked. Everything was neatly set up with fancy colored napkins and several silverwares (which to be honest I was a little intimidated by). I was introduced to several of the fellow members of this organization and I had the privilege of sitting next to a Hillsborough deputy (which was my eye candy of the night) shhhh don’t tell him. Hahhahaha. Anyways back to the important things, this banquet was to recognize the people who volunteer, donate, and work alongside the Florida Sheriffs Youth Ranch. The main focus of this entity is to bring about change in the course of young people’s life aka the kids/youth. These kids are brought in voluntarily by their family members or through the foster system in some cases as this is a private organization that seeks to straighten the path of kids and teens coming from physical/verbal abused homes.  

After we had the thanksgiving meal, some of the residents came up to the front to give a small shout out of gratitude to the audience and association. I was genuinely touched by their words and how they expressed that the Florida Sheriffs Youth Ranch was a place they could call home.

I was once a foster kid myself, so I know exactly what it feels to be separated from your parents and have to live with strangers for a whole year. I have a blog post detailing my foster home experience and my point of view on the current foster home system. I want more now than ever to be an advocate for this life changing organization, that has had an impact in the lives of over 150,000 kids since the 1950s. I hope to get the opportunity of mentoring these young minds and become a sponsor myself.

Just between me and my blog readers: I was looking forward to sharing my story at the banquet, but I guess it might have taken the focus away from the kids if I shared my inspiring story. So, I will continue to wait eagerly for the next opportunity to share my story publicly at another event.

I can’t wait to be at a place in my life where I am being booked for presentations!!! Yes, I am looking forward to actually becoming an official motivational speaker. Well, hope you enjoyed one more blog from no other than me aka Ana Gonzalez aka beautifulSoul aka amilikey trade mark hashtag!!! Major Lol.

Xoxoxoxo,

Ana 😊   

Domestic Violence

     Make-up helps cover some bruises but believe me nothing covers up the pain of being the victim of verbal and physical abuse. I had a great childhood and most people would disagree with me because of my accident at age three; however, I was the one living my childhood and I enjoyed every part of it. Yes, there was physical pain from surgeries and treatments, but apart from that I was loved and taken good care of as a child. I had lots of barbies and girl toys and I had lots of play-time.

    I was a very innocent child back in the day and with time I matured and my innocence washed away layers by layers. I remember crying with my mom as she sobbed from her wounds that my FATHER biological father gave her. I didn't understand the concept of domestic violence at that time and moment, but I did my best to comfort her and try to protect her as well. I came to realize the horror of what my father did to my mom around the age of 9-ish definitely when I was 11 years old I heard the stories in full detail and was perplexed to discover my father had the audacity to treat my mother that way for no reason.

    My father is a chronic alcoholic due to my grandfather's own alcoholism that he imposed and passed down on to him. Every time my father became drunk out of his ass he became extremely aggressive and took it out on my mother almost on a every other day basis. He left bruises on her face and body each and every time. He could care less if me and my sister were crying in the crib from the screams of the physical battery going on. My mother suffered this abuse for about 8 consecutive years, because she felt she had no other options with no education and no family to rely on for help. My father not only beat her up physically but verbally he made her think she was a piece of shit by calling her derogatory names all the time.

    It breaks my heart to know the truth of what happened when I was helpless to help and protect my angel. She did absolutely nothing to deserve any of this domestic violence; my mother was always a great housewife - taking care of the household and her children. On top of the domestic violence, my father boosted on his affairs and the other women he had been with. He was never faithful or a good partner, and when my accident happened he only sought out for his best interest to get a free ride off of me to come to the American Dream. He never visited me at the hospital while I was in treatment and never made himself available to take care of me, but when the doors to Shriners Hospital for Children opened up he jumped in front of the line.

     All in all, domestic violence is an experience no one should have to face and people may underestimate the power of words but they do impact someone's life. I too have experienced both in my lifetime and from a relative as well. I already am a survivor of burns, but to have to add a survivor of domestic violence too is not something I want to admit to. I will always be an advocate for every cause I have experienced and believe in.

    Well, till the next blog I wish every single one of you a wonderful week and success in all that you do honestly. Believe in your hidden talents and know you're NOT a mistake and there is a plan and purpose just for you. Smile as much as you can and remember there is always someone who has it worse than you and I, so be grateful for whatever you have and be brave.

Xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo,

Ana :)